<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5826779576393464259</id><updated>2011-10-03T11:21:58.437-04:00</updated><category term='intro'/><title type='text'>Musings of a Kink Adventurer</title><subtitle type='html'>Take a ride with me and let's see what we can do!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://musingkink.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5826779576393464259/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://musingkink.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Kero</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04314721577755752098</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5826779576393464259.post-736611739192846278</id><published>2008-03-21T12:32:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-03-21T13:21:08.795-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Orientation...</title><content type='html'>Orientation...  Up, down... top, bottom...  Dom, Sub... M/s... Straight/Gay/Bi/Trans... Labels...labels...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all label, whether we label ourselves or each other. Labels are a way to give order and reason and classification, and bearing in our worlds... but there are times when we mislabel, or we don't wish to be labeled.  I have a label for myself, yet no one else classifies me the way  I would.  Or at least not completely the same.  So then is it my wish or hope to be this label or am I this label without realization yet, or am I just this label regardless of all else?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In Kink, I classify myself as a Dominant/Mistress/Daddy (which I think most people only see the Dom/Mistress), and Bisexual/Pansexual.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do I want... in that mythical ideal world I want a household, a household of slaves and servants, of an extended poly family, and me and my spouse as head of household.  This is a pipe dream, and I know it is just a dream, but it is my dream.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A little more realistically, I want a slave.  Someone who is in service to me for a specific period of time, and who I am responsible for.  Someone who understands that it isn't about what they want, but what I want, and what I need.  It is to do as I say, to understand that that is the purpose in their life.  Someone who really does live to serve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are there labels for this?  are there labels for what I really want.  I can't really describe what it is I want, but I know some of what I want, and the labels just makes things fuzzy, as they never say exactly what I mean.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;well...  I think that was enough meandering for a day.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5826779576393464259-736611739192846278?l=musingkink.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://musingkink.blogspot.com/feeds/736611739192846278/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5826779576393464259&amp;postID=736611739192846278' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5826779576393464259/posts/default/736611739192846278'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5826779576393464259/posts/default/736611739192846278'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://musingkink.blogspot.com/2008/03/orientation.html' title='Orientation...'/><author><name>Kero</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04314721577755752098</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5826779576393464259.post-3870717254010966562</id><published>2008-01-23T15:56:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T16:11:56.127-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='intro'/><title type='text'>Who am I?</title><content type='html'>That's the real question...  Who are you?  Who am I?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the purpose of this blog, I'm a 30 something woman with the desires and skills to top, hurt, scare and all round dominate others.  I've been in the "lifestyle" for +/-15yrs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm starting this blog to have somewhere to talk about my adventures, and muse about my desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is to a new year of desires and kink!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5826779576393464259-3870717254010966562?l=musingkink.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://musingkink.blogspot.com/feeds/3870717254010966562/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5826779576393464259&amp;postID=3870717254010966562' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5826779576393464259/posts/default/3870717254010966562'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5826779576393464259/posts/default/3870717254010966562'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://musingkink.blogspot.com/2008/01/who-am-i.html' title='Who am I?'/><author><name>Kero</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04314721577755752098</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
